Navigating the Waves of Judgement
Dancing is more than just a hobby; it’s a passion that fills you with life. Yet, as a dancer, specifically focused on Bachata, one might sometimes find their family and friends’ inability to comprehend this love. They might see it as a waste of time, or they might simply be unable to grasp the depth of your connection with dance. This discrepancy can lead to feelings of judgement and misunderstanding, creating a disconnect that’s difficult to bridge.
One of the most challenging tasks is dealing with the constant tug of war between your love for dance and the expectations from your loved ones. The middle ground can feel like quicksand, pulling you further away from your true desires. For some, the fear of judgement has them holding back, unable to fully express their joy and passion for Bachata.
Overcoming the Fear of Being Judged
The most powerful antidote to fear of judgement is openness. Imagine freely sharing your dance journey on your social media platforms, or openly expressing the joy you derive from dancing at family gatherings. Their puzzlement is merely a reflection of their lack of understanding, not a rejection of your love for dance.
Fear is a powerful inhibitor, but the strength lies in harnessing it, transforming it into a driving force that propels you further on your dance journey.
Learning to Dance to Your Own Rhythm
It’s okay to dance to your own rhythm, in tune with your heart. Your dance journey is uniquely yours, and it deserves to be celebrated. It may be difficult for others to understand why you choose to spend hours swaying to the rhythm of Bachata music, but it’s not for them to comprehend. It’s for you to enjoy.
Reaching a Place of Acceptance
Inevitably, there will be those who will never understand your love for dance. They might hold onto their judgement, their puzzlement might never wane, but none of this should deter you from your passion.
The key is to reach a place of acceptance. Acceptance that not everyone will understand your love for Bachata, acceptance that their inability to comprehend does not devalue your passion, and acceptance that it’s perfectly okay to dance for the sheer joy it brings you.
Dance is Personal, Let it Be
In conclusion, dance, especially Bachata, is a deeply personal journey. It’s a journey of self-discovery, of finding joy and freedom in the rhythm and movements. It’s okay if others don’t understand it, because at the end of the day, it’s your journey, not theirs.
So, dance with all your heart, let the rhythm of Bachata fill you with joy, and remember, you are dancing for yourself, not for anyone else.
